Is this worth saving, or am I only fooling myself?

[kat727]

Isn't it funny how we, the LBS, feel that we need to beg and plead for them to stay with us. It is bs, plain and simple. We deserve so much better.

So first things first, is make yourself into the best you that you can be for yourself and your child. Make those changes that will get you in a better place. Stop thinking about the W, she is an alien now and you don't know her. Sorry just got into a nasty argument with ex and my view is slightly skewed. You can see the fun thing he is doing on my thread if you want.

I am guessing you are seeing your son on a regular basis. When you go, make sure you are dressed nice, smell nice and are polite to her but not inquisitive in the least.

When she calls, if it is anything other than things regarding your son, tell her pleasantly that you need to go. No explanation is required.

Read Divorce Remedy, I found it more useful than Divorce Busting but it won't hurt to read that too. Good luck Dash. I will try to keep an eye on you.

kat