Hey, LIS, how are you doing? And......what do you mean 5 paragraphs on Superstar's thread...... \:\/ You are just jealous cause I haven't been paying more attention to you! Oh my! All my guys here wanting my time.......whatever will I do (as she places her hand over her forehead, and sounding like Scarlett O'Hara).

Let's see, that's one paragraph.....let me try for two. OMW...wow. Things sure can get complicated, can't they? Well, if it enables the A between your W and OM, then I say no. If it helps disables the A or at least makes it a lot harder on them, then I say yes. Just as long as the two of you do not start too much communication--b/c it would be easy, talking to each other about the same problems, to fall into a situation yourself....if you know what I mean. I don't know how old she is or if you have said or even if you know. In a lot of cases, it doesn't matter. If she has not tried to contact you since this past summer, then she may have decided not to anymore. If she was needing to contact you on a very serious matter, then do you think she would have contacted you by phone or not? Sorry, I need to go back and re-read again. I did catch up at one time but then I start forgetting and it is embarrassing, but I don't know what to do about it. Doesn't mean I don't care about ya.....just means I'm losing my memory!

Well, sorry, didn't make it to five paragraphs. But, I will try to do my usual looooong posts next time....lol.

Take care,
Sandi

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!