Sol-
Quit worrying about what she is doing. As the Great and Powerful Theoden once told me, she is out doing the nasty. I can't do anything about it.

If you don't want to take your daughter because you have plans, don't (but we all know that you will).

As far as the affectionat BF's. Monitor that as it effects your daughter. If it becomes an issue for HER, address it.

Me: 44
S: 17 and 7
Final-6-13-08
I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......