I guess you should just be honest at this stage Jeff.. after all these years, just be honest. Tell her how you feel, tell her your hopes and dreams, tell her you want to know whether or not she is happy and what you can do to help, if at all, if she isnt.

What do you think?

Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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