Hey BBJ. My H was a lot like that too "changed his mind" numerous times during our D sitch. He would one day say "With all that I've said & done to you and you still want to stay, I would be stupid not to stay" and then call his best bud to say "hey, Kelly & I are staying together & we want you & Kelly to come for a BBQ on Friday night" and then the next day or 2 days later, he would be back to wanting a D.

I think instead of trying to figure out what he is doing and what he wants, you need to spend some time figuring out what you want and how you are going to get there.

Just my 2 cents -- still reading along.

Oh & he said some awful, nasty stuff to me that I don't think I'll ever forget !!

Last edited by RedHeadWife; 10/29/08 09:50 PM.
Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10