THIS IS TO EVERYONE,
Okay here is the information I told you about the feminine nature. Take it or leave it, just an opinion.

There is a masculine nature and a feminine nature. A man is naturally drawn to a feminine nature. It's like radar and it doesn't necessarily have to do with physical looks.

Ever notice how older men go for younger girls? Well automatically we think well its got to be the younger body, and yes sometimes it is, but sometimes it's because younger girls still have that feminine nature, they haven't lost it yet. They exude femininity. Don't confuse it with something sexual.

Something happens to women as we get older, are raising our families, working and all the pressures of life come in and we lose our feminine nature. It's so easy to happen, in fact most of us don't even noticed it happened.

What is it? Now don't feel you need to be an airhead but girls it works. Men are drawn to it. It's that bubbly, happy go lucky, cheerful, adventurous, effervescent, giggly, spontaneous, carefree, flirty, confident, sexually confident way that only a woman can be. I think the OW do this. Examine the behavior of a younger woman, its very much the same way isn't it.

As we get older we lose that, and its so easy because we bear so much of the family responsibilities. We become harder, we lose spontaneity and laughter, we become very serious, very calculated and planned, we stop flirting, we lose our bubbly and become boring and exhibit more masculine traits.

The feminine nature is our true nature. Its God given. Remember back when you were courting your spouse? You were probably exhibiting more feminine traits as the ones I listed above. trust me you did or your spouse may not have been attracted to you.

Of course there are other things you may have done as well, filling love bank etc(Surviving An Affair by Willard Harley).

So there you have it. Tap into and find that feminine part of you. you'll have more fun either way because its so much more fun being a girl that a boy LOLOL, but really hope that makes sense to ya'll.


Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca