Hi there everhope - thanks for stopping by!

I should think NZ knocks spots off Chesterfield! But i guess you always have an affinity to your home town! You may have worked out I'm not far from there - I use the route through Stoney Middleton / past Chatsworth through to Chesterfield quite regularly to get through to the M1...

"Frustrates me that if w would spend half the effort on our marriage as her om we would have a fighting chance with our marriage" - I can relate to this!!!

The most aggravating thing for me is that the things W does with OM are the things we used to do before S6 came along and would have done/could do if we could make sure S6 was looked after - but we can't do these things together because of that difficulty - but that seems to reflect on me where that is simply a consequence of being parents...and it seems to put OM in a much stronger position. I know there's loads more to it than that - but that simplistic analysis is how it feels sometimes.

Again - thanks for stopping by - I appreciate it...

KBO - GFI


Me: 40ish
W: 40ish
Together: 20 ish years
Married: 10ish Years