Faith, I forgot you are military. Are you air force. I have had many friends and my sister who is military. My heart goes out to you. I wish everyone knew about the military, the married aspect of it. I love our military and support them completely 101%.

The only down side is that is seems to be a huge swingers club! I understand what you are going through because I have heard it again and again.

Ya know, if he asks you are we ok next time(wait til he does it in person) sweetly smile and chuckle and say yeah why would you ask? Something on your mind and just kinda walk away or find something to do like your not really listening or engaged and see what he says. I'm kinda curious why he keeps asking that. But you gotta do real non-challant, I did this with my H one time as I thumbed through the mail acting as if I was only hafl engaged in the convo.

Very good, let some go to voice mail accept half of the invitations and Keep GALi'ing.

Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca