It's Halloween this Friday, x wants me to take D9 out for trick or treating instead of her but wants D9 dropped off her place on Sat. Fine, but..... I think she's going out to party on her night off from work (she works nights still and told me she's working that night) and won't tell me. Why else would she want for me to take my daughter that night but drop her off the next day? Also - D9 told me her mom has 2 male friends she's really affectionate to (so boyfriend(s) in the picture) - which is another issue altogether. I'm not going to ask X what she is really doing on Fri night - not my business - she told me on her own she's "working" - but when she's passing the buck in babysitting so she can have fun and I change my plans - not cool. If she wants to be with her bf - fine. She just needs to tell me. Heck, if I want to go out with my GF (which is in my future) I'll prob make sure I tell X I have "plans to go out" and leave it at that - but not lie or beat around the bush.
I'm not making a big deal out of it this time because I want to spend time with my D9 anyway, I love spending any calendar event with my daughter. It's just annoying seeing my X act really selfish on a night like Halloween and not care for my D9's needs. My D9 has been looking forward to Halloween trick or treating for a while now. I'm also keeping my D9 on Sat all day, X can wait till Sun.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
