First off congrats on your w moving back home!!! What a break through and treat it as such.
Second, I like what SC had to say. All the raw serious stuff, maybe save it for your MC meetings and deal with it there.
Third. When I came back home in may, I dived in head first. WRONG! Be patient like you are doing. One of the first repiles I got back from my very first post on here was from a good and wise man that said I needed to control my breathing and slow myself down. Dont show any anger or frustration or expect your w to just jump in with both feet at first. That man was YOU Coach back in August in my first thread, Im so lost without her. So now I am telling you to do the same. But you already know this so who am I kidding!! LOL! Still, its good advice. It helped me.
Keep your chin up my friend. You are strong and are on the right track. You guys will be fine.
Joe
M: 37 WAW: 35 D's: 9 & 7 M: 13 Bomb: 01/28/08 Status: Limboland Total bomb drops: Lost count! Support: Here, God above, and now the Love Dare