Positive developments? #2

[jon2911]

Well, a lot has happened, including getting in trouble at work for surfing too much No big deal, but I've needed to lay low for a while. First to respond to this:

She calls you an awful lot. I'm wondering, why you make yourself SO accessible to her ALL THE TIME. If you're tired, don't answer your phone. Why should you be there to sing her to sleep? If she lived with you, you could sing to her every night. See what I'm getting at? For instance, if I was going on an evening canoe ride, I'd leave my phone in the car. You've got to be TOO busy to talk to her sometimes.
But, what do I know...

I think this is good advice, thanks!

It's definitely a change, only in the last couple weeks has she been calling so much that I need to think this way. But I'm starting to cut things short if I'm at work, or not stay up quite so late.

W called over the weekend telling me she misses me and wants to come visit! What a surprise. All the stuff for SIL's wedding is getting busy, but she still wants to come. We tried for Tuesday, but now she's coming on Friday. Can't wait.

She said the family drama is continuing, and that she's officially "done" with her dad. This is a huge turnaround from March. My C says that FIL is the biggest obstacle to our reconciling, so we'll see what happens.

In other news, I'm making quite a bit of money renting my canoe out on Craigslist. Who would've thought? The thing was just sitting behind my house before. It will be in a photo shoot next week, which means I need to have it there at 6:30AM, but I'm charging them extra.

W is a CL master, so she does the listing for me and helps with the responses, etc. Working out well because she feels useful and important.