I knew it was really irrating to him and just made things worse when they didn't need to be. He naturally doesn't see what an arse he is being, so really doesn't help for me to always be pointing it out.
Now during the heated conversations the last few days we have been cutting each other off left and right. If we were cars, we would not be drivable. lol
I can't save him from the mess he is making, he has to get the answers. When I asked him why he didn't tell me that he hadn't paid the bills he said because he knew how I would react i.e. go ballistic, which I did. Just like a teen. MLC is not for the faint of heart, so my heart has moved on.
I am trying to take steps to proactively protect myself but I also have to make him own up to this mess he has created. Sorry Honey, I am not your Momma!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory