Oh his excuse for not getting a second job...There is NO Way I could make enough in one month to pay what is now due.
He also acts as if it is my fault that he has "all" the bills to pay. I was fine when I just had mine to handle and now I have all of these too, he exclaims. What a pathetic delusional man.
kat
Delusional. So he'd rather go to jail than get a 2nd job and/or roommate? And the thing is if he got a 2nd job, and was making effort to pay his debts, I don't think any judge would put him in jail. But if you make no effort at all???
My C says that people that blame their problems on others like that is one of the hardest things to treat in therapy. I guess b/c they can't admit the problem is them in the first place? If you can't do that, you won't do anything to work on yourself? Karen
