I have been keeping my H in the loop with regard to the mammogram thing. He is one that is pretty level headed and doesn't get alarmed unless there is a reason to. OTOH, I am NOT telling my mother because she will totally put all sorts of negative energy on me by "worrying" incensantly and talking doom and gloom.
Last night I was at a friend's house helping her go over her kiln stuff. She lives with a guy she met off Yahoo personals last year. She had been previously hung up on a guy that was sort of stringing her along and she was having a hard time moving forward. This new guy did NOT get scared off when she said that she still had feelings for the other guy. He was cool just hanging out with her and seeing what happened. Well, obviously since she is living with him, it progressed quite nicely. They were telling me last night that she really needed him (current guy) to help her move on from the other guy, because then she could SEE what it was like to have someone want to be with her full time. Their big suggestion-- go out on lots of dates and hopefully find someone that I like that wants to be with me full time.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing