I agree with Jody... not being there when he expects, right after you have had days when things are going well sounds like a great idea. It will create space for him to miss you right after some positive engagements. Interesting that eventhough you went off to Galway at the weekend and ML and share a house.. she still sees you as in stage 1 ! I can see the logic in that though as he is still passive aggressive toward you and not exactly a relaxed friend. I think I would have defo done her suggestion, if it hadnt been that Friday.. but then, maybe do the note and dinner and be out of the house for the earlier part of the evening and rock up later on? As a compromise?
She is very good isnt she. Real genius !
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread