I just wanted to comment on the classmates thing. I don't necessarily agree with ot and saffie. My class was pretty close, so was H's class. They all email eachother and we've been to one reunion. So I don't think looking people up on it is wrong. I think that's a bit far fetched. I would never cheat on H, and certainly wouldn't be "scanning" classmates to find someone even if that was the case, and knowing you, I know that wasn't intended.
I actually think the charlie brown remark was funny...
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