I'm a bit confused my W had been doing touch & goes all summer about once a week. Then it hit the fan after we argued about the house. she filed for D, I acted "as if" for a few weeks.
One day I said "this is not what I wanted at all. You can put this on hold if you would like." She did, nothing has happened w/d since.
She has been a lot better with the kids and looks and acted like her old self for about three weeks. We spent time together 3 times a week and went to a concert. She came out for a while. We were romantic if you will for a night and I think she got spooked. Now my little MLC sweetheart is in high gear with the projection and blaming like never before. Not even gonna try and figure it out.