T2L, sounds like your dance card is full the next 4 days! The OW will go crazy! Especially with Halloween, I am sure she wants to go out and party that night hitting the bars. I know my H's OW that is one of her biggest holidays so I know she will be dragging him out and it will probably be their only safe night out if they dress up and no one recognizes them!

who is the friend from the church you and him are meeting for lunch? Is it a mutual friend? someone who is on your side? just curious.

I still have one session with Jody. Need to plan it. Did Jody tell you how to reduce negative emotions? I am limiting contact which is easy now that D and H are on non-speaking terms. Also H told me he called his sister. I wonder what happened with that conversation?

Well I am off to my meeting that H attends. Say a prayer for me all. composure, strength, positive attitude.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09