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LIS,

Tell S13 to squeeze hard and hope for butterflies and rainbows!!!!! Man I loved that one! Nice goin S&S! Try to pass on the skidmark though, that is kinda gross.

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Was going through an e-mail account I used before and found an e-mail from OMW from July that I had not responded to. I initially thought I should respond and drafted this:

Hello OMW.
First, I do apologize for not responding to your message. I have not been using this e-mail account much until recently. A number of e-mails were sitting there including yours.

How are things? I do not want to be presumptuous. If you would rather not have any further communication with me, simply send a message saying no reply.

You and I did briefly chat on July 17. You answered my late night phone call to your house at 11pm.
Hopefully you had a number of the questions that you had answered sometime after that call. If not, I can try to answer what questions you still have.

Anyway, again I apologize for the length of time in my responding. I do hope you are doing well.
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Now I am not sure that I should. Help!!


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Maybe it is just the state of mind I am in right now, but I think when you help someone else you are helping yourself. Though that may not be your motive behind it, by helping it has a way of healing. Think of Princess Di.

If you want a laugh, here it is.
I have a lot of cleaning to do tonight so I let my Scooba(robot floor cleaner) start to go while I started to tackle another part of the house. The kids started yelling for me because they couldn't get in the bathroom. Turns out the little robot was somehow able to "open" the bottom drawer in front of the bathroom door. Now no one can get in!! I am giving my wrist a break and S13 is giving it a try!

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kat, that is funny as hell!!! Man I love the people on here LIS, they crack me up. I could be having the worst day and come in here and find a story like kats and just smile! Sorry kat, Im laughing with ya hun, not at ya!!

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Hey, LIS, how are you doing? And......what do you mean 5 paragraphs on Superstar's thread...... \:\/ You are just jealous cause I haven't been paying more attention to you! Oh my! All my guys here wanting my time.......whatever will I do (as she places her hand over her forehead, and sounding like Scarlett O'Hara).

Let's see, that's one paragraph.....let me try for two. OMW...wow. Things sure can get complicated, can't they? Well, if it enables the A between your W and OM, then I say no. If it helps disables the A or at least makes it a lot harder on them, then I say yes. Just as long as the two of you do not start too much communication--b/c it would be easy, talking to each other about the same problems, to fall into a situation yourself....if you know what I mean. I don't know how old she is or if you have said or even if you know. In a lot of cases, it doesn't matter. If she has not tried to contact you since this past summer, then she may have decided not to anymore. If she was needing to contact you on a very serious matter, then do you think she would have contacted you by phone or not? Sorry, I need to go back and re-read again. I did catch up at one time but then I start forgetting and it is embarrassing, but I don't know what to do about it. Doesn't mean I don't care about ya.....just means I'm losing my memory!

Well, sorry, didn't make it to five paragraphs. But, I will try to do my usual looooong posts next time....lol.

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just a sidebar to Sandi's post.

I actually had my W say to me when she was in her A with her doctor; that "wouldn't be funny if you and dr.'s W started having an A?"

She was serious. I'm guessing that she wanted her out of the way.


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Well, the queen has returned to the castle. I picked up S13 from hockey so didn't get home until 6:30. Said hello to W - she actually said hi to me. Nothing else.

Talked with the k's, had a bit to eat and then headed out to do some errands. Legit errands - no avoidance from me. But no going out of my way either...

GAME ON... wait, I heard that before.


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Methinks tomorrow will be an interesting day.

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PDT, what do you think? I don't know that she will try anything stupid on Halloween, but then again, it is the right time for weird things.


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LIS,

Been caught up in my own world for a bit. Honestly from some of the posts on here I don't think it matters what day it is. The illogical and stupid have no time frame. To bad we love them so much. Take care.


A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does

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