Sorry for the downer post last night! I was just in one of those moods. MUCH better today. \:\)

I do need to get that focus back on myself, though. H HAS been acting not so great at times, but I'm letting it affect me way too much.

I DO still need to figure out how to calmly address the stuff that's bothering me with H though, too. Honestly I think we're BOTH just under a ton of stress and neither of us is handling it very well. I'll think about that some and post more once I have an idea what I might want to say - always like to get other takes on it.

OT - You said to bug ya if you hadn't written back yet on the kids thing. I wasn't sure how long to wait - so just a gentle nudge. \:\) I'd love to hear the background as to why you asked that question.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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