Hello everyone! T2L, thanks for the response. Also ALL and faith we are all on top of our game today. Such uplifting posts today.
All you are doing good, staying very positive. My only suggestion when your H tries to draw you into any conversation about "friend's" OW or anything like that -- detach. If H tries to pin you down say you are not comfortable talking about any type of conversation about friends cheating. End of discussion, and then find an excuse to go off and do something else.
Faith, you are doing good also. When H comes over DB said don't follow him around, don't do R talks, detach a bit -- make a phone call to a friend, laugh, walk into the other room, be mysterious, even if you are talking to the plumber! If H keeps asking if you are ok -- say something like "why do you want to know" and then laugh.
T2L, I AM running off what you wrote and keeping it next to my night stand. I like the part about God giving us new mercies everyday. I do pray to God all the time and have taken to reading the Bible at night looking up passages (something I have never done in life) but I think that I am not taking the time to listen. God knows what I want, He hears me, but I need to fully turn it over.
Well I just was outside and ran into some of the people that work for my H, they were going on a tour of another facility on base. As I was talking H walks outside, H says hi and I could see he is checking me out. (I have not really seen him in more than a week). I wore a shirt that I have not worn for awhile that never fit me (it is almost big) and new pants (2 sizes smaller). I talked to the other guys for another minute, laughing, smiling and said I have to go -- H says goodbye and I walk away never looking back. They were waiting for the other side of team which consists of the OW (do not want to hang around for that) -- see I did not follow the cheeseless tunnel.
I was wondering if H had heard about the notice I put up in OW's office. I could not tell from his expression. I am hoping the whole office saw it. Implied exposure.
I have a meeting this afternoon that H is part of. I will remain cool, collected, and detached. I am going to Yoga so I will breathe, breathe, breathe!
T2L, when do you see your H again? Has he been in contact?
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
