Just posted my friend! Yes long haul for all of us and only we can decide how long each of us can handle it. It's a personal choice. They say all affairs die a natural death in 6-24 months, but of course there are others that don't fall into that category.

Yes my Pastor is AWESOME!!!! But I am an associate Pastor under him so if you ever need advice I'm here for you in the same way he is here for me. \:\)

I wish ya'll on the thread could come out to Southern California for a weekend! We could have so much fun, you all can bring the kiddies too! Let's say we do it someday! I feel like everyone here is a sister all linked by these darn affairs ick ick ick!

Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca