Originally Posted By: lost_in_space

Do what is best for you and the K's. If H wakes up and comes along for the ride, great. If not, HIS LOSS!!!!!!

It already is his loss, hes just too caught up to see it.

Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome

He's just a DAM! I wonder why it might feel like you were one step closer to divorce! Geeeez! If that's not what he wants, he's doing a pretty crappy job of showing it!

Do what you need to to protect the kids. See what he goes once the baby arrives. You'll know what to do, then!


Amen to the first part and that is my plan in a nutshell to the second part. That is all I can do.

I love this idiot with all my heart, but I have learned that I can live without him and I also love my kids and myself enough to do the best thing for us.


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option