Trying2Live-Post #3

[Trying2live]

ALLW8,
Yes! I am so glad you got dressed and went to a party. Very Confident and GAL.

Remember this is about you, go to those dance classes again, reach out and find new friends. Yes we can use the forum for anything I would think, rant away.

I just don't like the fact that he uses you for a dumping ground or thinks that it is acceptable behavior to talk with you about OW unless you have both decided that you don't want the M. I'm not sure what to think about that.

If you want the marriage, hmmm, maybe tell him 1 time, either personally or (i like better) in a card, that you would like to restore the marriage and that you would rather not discuss the online dates or any other women to you as it is hurtful. Then do not discuss the relationship again and don't do anything that says you are dating. Then focus on you. I hate to sound like a broken record but I can't get away from this so I truly feel like this is what God is kinda moving you into a season of. Does that make sense?
Its a season for you to finally come into confidence and strength, and hopefully your place of pain will become your place of reign and your going to be able to help other women get to that place and your going to know how to tell them how to get there because you've done it and your gonna know what it takes to become a women of confidence. Concentrate on you, go back to the dance class and keep pushing forward. Remember confidence is attractive.