Okay, so when he did come to pick up D, he actually came inside which is rare these days. He did so to drop off a check for a portion of a bill that was autodrafted yesterday--so there was a potential for another overdraft, altho I was able to work around it. I'm beginning to wonder if he does this on purpose--following the letter of the "law" (he did provide a partial payment, on the day the bill was due) but in actuality causing further problems because it can't be deposited until today.

Anyway, once inside he looked around the family room that D and I rearranged. He said, "hey, you moved the furniture around. Do you really like it like THIS?" Both D and I said "Yes!!" at the same time. For me, it was a before-and-after thing (a little late) and it will stay this way for awhile even tho parts are inconvenient. Because now it's MY WAY of arranging things. I'm even kinda glad he doesn't like it!!


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012