You can hijack any time, girl, I don't have much interesting stuff to post right now anyway.
I don't think you are screwing anything up. You were doing awesome when he was home and, honestly, I think you have done awesome all along. Way better than I ever did!!
I honestly think that I would just hold back a little bit and see how he reacts to that. See if he notices; see if he says something about it and maybe says he misses your emails, etc. I would quit sending packages, but I wouldn't say anything to anybody about not doing it, such as his parents and telling them they need to send him whatever he needs. If he emails and asks you to send something, then ok, but I wouldn't be sending care packages. See if he misses it. That's just my advice for now.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10