Thanks, K. I am just torn, if he weren't here, I would maybe be able to think more clearly...but how would the kids view me "kicking dad out"? And our Halloween is in 2 days, do I want S thinking of the night Dad left every Halloween?

AND we just had another interesting round of texting:

Me: Sorry I was a grump this morning I am tired from Gigi (our d's nickname) being up all night and clinging to my leg this morning while I tried to make S's cakes for school. (Halloween party today and I am ROOM MOM)

H: Yeah I understand. She feels like crap and there was no comforting her and she did her best to make the evening miserable for Nate (last night).

Me: If she doesn't chipper up my mom can watch her while you carve Nate's pumpkin tonight.

H: She will be ok just needs meds for her ear

Am I crazy or was that actually a sane conversation involving understanding and problem solving.............again that is not what I am used to and for some reason it is throwing me off...


Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

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he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17