Probably because of guilt... Probably because once again he is not OK with his decision. Probably because his decision is a result of the feeling "we cant fix it so let's go ahead and break it, at least we will be DOING something".
Dan has a long way to go until he realises there are no "Quick Fixes" as FG says. I know my stbxH thought that the decision was the hardest part but as what he now tells me, what followed was beyond his imagination.
Bbj, if you feel strong enough, just tell him what you want. If you want him out, he has to move. IMO, living in the same house while things are so stressful only HARMS the relationship and validates his decision. I know DR says stay in the same house but I think that is for stages earlier than yours. Love K
