"I just wish he would have a revalation and miss me like crazy... doesnt hurt to dream."
The only way for this to happen is for you to act as if he is losing you. So, no more focusing on what he is doing with his life or the OW. As hard as it is, you have to let him go and start finding ways to cheer yourself up, without him.
Sandy,
I know this sounds simplistic, but it's absolutely spot-on. There are no "magic" answers here, just this same piece of advice that you've been given over and over and over again.
