I was just getting ready to post that I was going to wait and see how long the "good" behavior would last. I decided that I verbally thanked her last night and that will suffice until such time that it becomes a more standard practice from her.

When I left this morning, she puckered her lips like she wanted a goodbye kiss. I did not oblige; but nicely told her to have a good day.

No expectations, just taking the help when I can get it. Anytime that she can muster up the will to spend and help with the kids is bonding time for them. Because of my W's possible PD tendencies; I worry about my D getting the same. If they can bond even closer, regardless our relationship; I think it's helpful in preventing any like occurrences in my D.

Thanks all. Leaving to go get BBQ; I mean work in Owensboro.


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