I was about to shut the laptop down, and just saw your post! Thanks for the link. I take the positive from that post, which is that Halloween could be a good day for love.
OK point taken about Christmas. It is definitely not a 180 for me to mention plans. I planned everything in the past...I will let this be unless he brings something up. I mean last weekend he brought up the hypothetical "if we lived in X", completely out of the blue, so it is possible. Sadly we might still be at the point where he needs a few drinks to loosen his tongue about positive things, but I think this is probably OK given the odd state we're in right now.
Oh should note that H texted me when he got to Cairo last night. Of course he knows that I like this, so is likely doing it out of obligation, but he even texted me when he got to the hotel. I thought it was a nice gesture, regardless of the rationale behind it.
I did read the Priya Kale site as well. It was interesting as usual :). ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!