(Just so you know, I'm not terribly vain, or incredibly handsome! One of the moderators had a little fun a couple of months ago, and changed my name for me.)
Anyway, it seems to me that carrying on with DB is working, so I would keep it up! This being the second separation is interesting, is he acting the same this time? Do you have any suspicions of an affair? Also, have you looked at the MLC section of the board?
I'll post a link that might be interesting, or at least amusing, once I find it.....