You weren't bad, your wife is just dissatisfied with her own life and is taking it out on the only person she feels she can control. You are an easy target for her.
She is not willing to work on your M because she would have to take a real look at herself and see where all her own failures are and fix them. Step 1 - Realize she has failures. Ummmmm.......I'm sorry, she thinks she doesn't have any and therein lies the problem. Step 2 - Admit that it's not totally about you and that she has been treating you with NO respect at all.....ummmmmmmmmmm......Her, wrong? Admit she is at fault? NEVER! That would mean that no matter how much "control" she had it wasn't enough for her.
She is not a happy woman Jeff and only she can fix that. Until she realizes the depth of her misery she will not be able to fix it. Has she EVER had any kind of IC?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
