I could mirror those thoughts exactly. I was way far from the perfect husband but damm well know what to do for the future.
In this situation you're lucky you don't have kids - i have a desire to put all that painfully learn't enlightenment to the benefit of my w and family but alas not to be
Yeah with your there 2008 did not exist but lessons learnt will last a lifetime.
Totally - i initially thought i was getting what i deserved also - my w is pretty much perfect which adds to my dilemma.
