"She is being quite good towards me and because I have had much stress at work , she has realy stepped up to the plate and helped out. She has helped with a lot of stuff around the house recently and it has been great."
Sounds like she would have been happy to go right along with the status quo had you not asked her to level with you.
I'm surprised she gave you the answer she did; "...that she was going to wait until she knew how things were going to work out before she told me."
Having an affair really does mess with your reasoning skills, doesn't it!
"W still seeing same guy , who lives out of town and is married . I can see that going well."
Yes, I'm sure he's just about to leave his wife for her so they can live happily ever after.
Unless something comes along to shake thing's up, she may continue to avoid reality. Do you have anything in mind to do that, or are you wanting to leave it alone for now?
"....dinner time she was still here , so I made her dinner without asking and she left a bit later. I dont think there was anything in it other than she gets lonely and wants to spend time around the family."
That's something though, she likes to spend time with you & family.... she just can't figure out that therein lies the happiness.
Take Care,
Sunny
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For those that do not know , or have forgotten , I work in the Finance industry and thats a ship thats running aground right now. My current job has been dis=established
I didn't know that Dave, I hope thing's settle down soon. Just what you needed, back-to-back rollercoasters!
