And I, in turn, have been a little sad and wondering if we made a mistake in not pursuing the adoption thing.
oh no, you definitely should not be sad. It would have been very sad had you had an adopted baby and gone through all that you have in the last 2 years.
What I think is wonderful is that God has allowed you guys to work thru all these problems and your M will be more secure than it ever was, and I think you guys will know when the time will be. I also think that as far as you've gotten in regards to your health, you are much better prepared to try to have a child then a couple years ago. don't you think?
and don't feel bad not wanting children, perhaps a calling could be you guys taking care of friend's children so they can secure their OWN marriages???
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
