Tom...You sound okay today. What's your W's LL? Do you know? If the note won't do as much for her (ie...her LL is physical touch rather than words of affirmation, etc.), don't write it...cause as soon as you write it...you're gonna develop some expectations. Maybe not big ones, but some nonetheless!
Take care of you and the kids...I still think you might be a really good man (in spite of the team loyalty), and your heart's in the right place!
Hugs! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!