I have been reading over there a lot...its like a car wreck, you just can't look away.

I don't know that it helps me, but it is interesting reading and I find a few nuggets here and there. Not gems of wisdom, but there have been a few Aha moments reading things from the "other side."

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option