Back to life, back to reality?

[optimistwife]

I vote for calling Jody. I think she will help you get the best perspective of how to respond to H.

Even though your H wants to talk all the time, his words do not reflect his behaviors. If you are looking for an indication that things are going well verbally- what if he says no? But you just spent a pretty good weekend together by your own accounts!

I struggle with this in my R too. I want to get the actual feedback of how we are doing, not have to interpret it from his actions. I think we want to know the end of the story while we are in the middle. I do think that if we push them they WILL make a decision- they will just quit.

You are doing so well, run your plan by Jody first...