Read the 5 Languages of Love or His Needs Her Needs. Those books might turn the lighbulb on. They sure did for me. \:\) I've spent this past year reading, learning & preparing to better myself for my M. Now it just might be for me alone .... but that's ok. (If my H changes his mind then I'm ready to help lead us on the correct path to a better M).


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)