What is it with these LBS'? Do they all become so enthralled by hedonism, so focused on the material things in life -- money, possessions, power, sex, etc -- that they no longer have souls? Are these just isolated cases, aberrations from the accepted norm? Or is this a sign of our culture? A disease of epidemic proportions that is rotting our civilization from within?

Karen, I am truly sorry your H has become utterly corrupted, such that he would be so cruel to and unconcerned for the welfare of his wife and children. But you are a kind and lovely person who will persevere and thrive, despite his repeated betrayals.

Hugs and blessings, smiley lady.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.