My MLC W still is at home and we do have separate rooms too. At first she was cold and avoided me altogether. She wants to date others and has a male older "friend" right now. What i did find that by being upbeat around her she has warmed up and even calls me even though she still wants a D. The point is I guess even if they don't come back by being upbeat it improves your mental health. I went on the link Trapt posted it is a good read!
Cheers, Jeff
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