(((Karen)))) I'm sure your hair is way cute and will be perfect for a job interview. I too am amazed at how people that used to be good parents (WAW/WAH) can turn into such a$$holes. It just boggles the mind at what people can allow themselves to become.
Take care of you and I would simply ask H what, if any his plans are for Halloween and see if he would be open to you having some time with the kids.

(((hugs))))

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option