Yes...totally agree w/ MsMelancoly. Apologize, validate and...that's it...no need to defend yourself or offer explanations. Try your best not to take the bait if she starts getting aggro on you. Lots of eye contact, nodding in agreement, "I'm so sorry you feel that way...", "I understand now...", etc.

Again, don't fight back or argue...let her release...develop a duck's back and let it all slide off...consider it your act of contrition...

- Me = 32 y/o
- WAW = 32 y/o
- M = 2.5 yrs, T = 12.5 yrs
- No kids
- Bomb, WAW moved out, D filed = 8/15/08

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