Probably not a good idea to share how you're feeling about her since it's probably opposed to the way she feels about you now. Chances are she'll feel pursued, guilt-ridden, and pressured, which will send her scurrying farther away.

She needs to develop and ripen on her own I guess. Unfortunately, that makes time (and a lot of it!) your only ally and patience and GAL'ing your only choice of weapons in this battle to save your M.


- Me = 32 y/o
- WAW = 32 y/o
- M = 2.5 yrs, T = 12.5 yrs
- No kids
- Bomb, WAW moved out, D filed = 8/15/08

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