ROTF!!! GREAT letter, Lisa!!! "Brown, non-fluffy socks" LMAO!!!
Perhaps a letter would be a good choice because then...as someone so kindly pointed out to me earlier today ...YOU would be in control of the 'convo'. You can say what you want without any interruption and without her turning it back around onto you - at least not immediately.
(((((Jeff)))))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell