No I think you did fine and I'm really glad you waited to respond. Perfect! Next goal longer, maybe 6 hours, or the next day.
It's not mean but he needs to feel a little of what a D would be like, he would no access to leaning on you at all so its good practice. In addition if you were D he would not have access to texting you are calling you. Plus it looks like your still living which I think puzzles them, how dare we continue to live and have fun and invest in ourselves when we should be miserable and dying with out them. NOPE! Sorry that isn't what hooked them and that's not going to get them back.

You were just being honest and that just is what it is, and you did say you were sorry.

He needs to figure it out and be resourceful and not place that additional burden on you.

Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca