She's being very friendly right now. I came home and she had lists for the kids so that they could clean before my Mom comes over Fri. night. She was cleaning her bathroom and doing laundry. So I'm joining in on the cleaning party while she's cooking dinner. This is REALLY weird. I don't know if she's been jolted into reality or is it just part of a scheme.
Pay no attention to her Tom. Pay no mind to what she is doing or why. The WAS will say and do things which at times give you hope. You must look at your sitch with no expectations or emotion. The things they do will put you on the coaster. It is your job to stay off the ride.
You continue to do for you and those kids. If your W happens to want to join you and be a mother/family then I say that's great. It's her choice..Keep your boundaries in place...a few days does not make a W or mother. a few token gestures does not mean she is back. It will take serious actions on her part and a desire by her to work with you to get things back on track.. and for her some serious IC.
Like I said..Hang in there,, document, boundaries in place..Be a good daddy for those kids..
