Go slow and let it happen for you. It will turn out however it is supposed to. Remain open and calm and just let things unfold.
I don't think you need to be in a hurry for anything, but that is your call. Don't tell him you are ready to try until you are. You will know when.
Until then, keep telling him his actions and consistency over time will let you know whether or not you are willing to try.
You may make your decision in a week, a month or in a year. You don't know and won't know until you are there. He must be willing to understand and show lasting change w/ his actions.
