Oh one other thing I would add is "INTIMIDATION" that is my new buzz word. The stuff your H put in his email is exactly the type of way my H tries to bully me. Be strong and remember you don't have to let him intimidate you. You control how you feel.
Me 46/H 48 M 19/T 20 S 16 D 9 Bomb 2/9/08 OW 2/29/08 Ended A 3/12/08 (LIAR)